Tuesday, November 30, 2010

Christmas -Elder Whipple

The Christmas Village
Santa said for all the kids to be nice this year!
The wonderful opportunity to see Elder Whipple before he departs to New Zealand
My Gosh, when did he get so big!
The meeting place was Brownwood Texas. This is West Texas at its best!
Maybe not after driving 19 hours straight from Nevada but it was great to visit with him anyway!
Jack n Gaye

Sunday, November 28, 2010

November 28th 2010

28 November 2010

We have much to be thankful for. We are serving in a wonderful place with great people and have many opportunities to serve others on a daily basis. It’s somewhat different than what we thought we would be doing when we submitted our papers to be missionaries but we know the Lord knows us personally and has put us in a spot to learn and grow in many ways.

Monday and Tuesday of this past week were busy helping people who came into the Center needing and wanting help in their job search. We helped people sign on to ldsjobs.org, build a resume, rework a resume they’ve already begun, work on their career plan, encourage and help them identify companies and businesses where they would like to work, etc., etc. Sister Lyle has been out this week recovering from her foot surgery. She manages the front desk/office procedures so I helped there. She taught me how to do the daily updated reports of job placements – that has been a fun thing to do, to see people who have gotten jobs for that day. So far we have had 127 this month in this area; Julie likes to have at least somewhere between 125 and 150.

Last Sunday we went out to Weatherford 1st Ward after having called the candidates throughout the week. I wasn’t sure if we had really done any good and if the efforts were worth the time – maybe we should spend our energies doing something more worthwhile. However, when we got to the Center Monday morning there was an email from a man whom I had contacted earlier in the week and then we met at church. He expressed gratitude for our effort in coming to visit the ward and the work that we were doing and that we really were making a difference. It was really nice to get such a note from him. Then on Tuesday Elder Nelson saw the Bishop of that ward in the Storehouse while he was getting some food orders for people in his ward and he told him how glad he was that we had visited their ward. So I guess we’ll just keep on keepin’ on.

We were sad to hear that Nathan Mahana moved to southeast Texas with his parents yesterday. His father lost his job a couple of weeks ago. They have a house in the southern part of the state so they moved there. No more practicing my sign language! He was really a great help to us at the ERC, especially during this time of a new website and the great need of getting jobs posted on it. He has typed hundreds and hundreds if not thousands of jobs on the site. He has given a great service. He has such a great sense of humor too, he will be missed!! He was one person who could just go to work and get so much work done without all of the distractions the rest of us face.

I believe that last week I mentioned the two new men that were hired to help with Employer Development, Elder Nelson’s area of expertise. Already one of them has been hired on a new job! We are excited for him, which is one of the goals for them to work on their own job search while they are doing work for the Center. Since they are hired as part time/temporary they are told to take advantage of a job opportunity if it comes their way. Now to look for another person to take his place. Of course that is Julie’s job not ours.

Wednesday morning was very slow, no one came in at all so Julie P. told us we were going to close at noon. So of course at 11:30 people started coming. I also took a call from a Bishop in Waco who needed some assistance with the website. I answered his questions, directed him to articles that I thought would be helpful to him and his ward council, and then followed up with some email attachments for the Ward Clerk regarding the necessary steps in MLS.

By 12:30 we were able to walk away. Since the Center was closed Thursday, Friday and Saturday for the Thanksgiving holidays, we got permission to travel down to the Houston area. We were very glad to get an early start on our trip. We stayed in Houston Wednesday night. Thursday we visited the NASA Space Center. We didn’t think very many people would be there on Thanksgiving and were surprised at how many were there. However, not many of them spoke English, it sounded like they were from all parts of the world. It was very interesting and enjoyable. There were quite a few films about different aspects of the space program, displays, etc. The highlight was going on a tram to the actual buildings where they train the astronauts, seeing past shuttles, rockets and seeing mission control center. The International Space Station orbits the earth 6 times a day and travels at 17,500 miles an hour, or 500 miles a second. That’s some pretty fast travel!

We spent most of the day there, then traveled back to our motel and went across the street to ‘Cracker Barrel’ for our Thanksgiving dinner, not quite like you get at home but it tasted pretty good. We missed the cranberry relish and pomegranate salad for sure. We did have several invitations for dinner here in Dallas, the Morells, the Moalas and Kim Heaton but our minds were set.

Thursday evening 3 crew members traveled back to earth from the Space Station, landing in Russia. In Houston they have a NASA TV station that we happened to find. It was interesting to watch, having just been there earlier that day. They showed Houston Mission Control Center and talked about many other things that we had just learned about.

One thing they brought up was all of the activity and exercises that the astronauts have to do while in space. As soon as they leave the earth’s atmosphere and no longer have gravity, they immediately start to lose bone mass, their blood rises and other things happen because of the lack of gravity. They aren’t sure if babies could be born in space and if they would develop normally. Interesting that it appears that you have to be ‘on the earth’, with earthly conditions such as gravity to have our bodies develop and function normally.

Also some very happy news for Gloria, she called and told us that her family had just called her and invited her to Thanksgiving dinner with them. She was so thrilled and we were so happy for her. We just love her, she’s such a great lady.

Friday morning we traveled down to Galveston to look around. It had turned off very cold, windy and rainy but we were able to drive around and see some of the interesting sites. There is a large historic district with many old homes and mansions. They have a lot of history there. They had a museum about off shore drilling that we went through that was interesting. It is an interesting port city; we enjoyed eating seafood along the docks. We saw quite a few things on this trip that we are not usually exposed to.

After lunch we traveled to Port Arthur along a string of islands. To get there we had to take a ferry to get to the islands. It was very fun, even if it was freezing cold. Most of the homes are built on stilts. Galveston and this area was very hard hit by Hurricane Ike a couple of years ago but they have most of it rebuilt. However, there are still some roads and buildings that are closed.

The thing we enjoyed most about Port Arthur was getting there, it was a very interesting drive along the coast. They have some very tall bridges, they have to be built high enough for the ships to pass underneath.

Here in Texas most things end in ‘er,’ or ‘est.’ They are not bragging, just telling the truth. Saturday morning we went to the San Jacinto Monument. It looks much like the Washington monument in Washington DC, with the exception of a star on the top. AND it is ‘taller’ than the Washington monument by several feet. We were able to go up to the top and enjoy the great view of the city and ports.

I’ll attempt to tell a little of the history as good as a non-history person can tell it. The Texans were defeated at the Alamo, including Davy Crockett, Bowie. The next battle was fought at San Jacinto on April 21, 1836, their battle cry was, ‘Remember the Alamo!’ This was the decisive battle of the Texas Revolution, led by Sam Houston. The Texas army defeated Santa Anna’s Mexican forces in a fight that lasted just eighteen minutes. About 700 of the Mexican soldiers were killed and 730 captured, while only nine Texans died.

Santa Anna, the President of Mexico, was captured the following day and held as a prisoner of war. Three weeks later, he signed a peace treaty. This paved the way for Texas to become an independent country. It also paved the way for nearly all of the western states to be part of the United States. Prior to that time that area was all a part of Mexico.

Interesting to think of what was going on in Pioneer history at that time. It seems to me that there was a lot more at stake than giving the families some much needed money. It was very important to our history for this to be the outcome. Brigham Young was indeed inspired to support the cause by sending the Mormon Battalion.

Also in this area was the Battleship Texas. We were able to tour the ship and enjoyed taking a view into ship life. Brian has told us stories when he was aboard ship for many months at a time, it makes it a little more personal and interesting.

We were able to make it back to Dallas and the apartment by 6:00, glad to be back after seeing many interesting things. It was good to stay busy and kept us from getting too homesick. It would have been hard to be in the apartment for 3-4 days without our missionary work to do.

It sounds like family at home had some great family get togethers, we so grateful for all of you and love and miss you so much.

I was able to catch up with Stake President Blake today and get the final signatures for application for the Harmon grant keyboards. I think it’s ready to send off now. I think these two ladies are very deserving. President Blake was not aware of what has been going on but seemed very pleased with the program and it’s progress.

We hope you all have a wonderful week. Back to work tomorrow.

Our love,

Grandma & Grandpa Nelson, Dad & Mom, Jack & Gaye

Elder and Sister Nelson

Jack n Gaye

Friday, November 26, 2010

Galveston -Port Travis-Houston

You show at the Employment Center to Assist others and the Other Sister shows up with the same outfit without any prior coordination effort! You look great Sisters.
We traveled to Galveston and had a chance to tour this Off Shore Oil Rig
This equipment highlights the life of a roughneck on these off-shore rigs
Chase Fredrick could have flown us to the Rig in the helicopter
The old Ford about the Ferry at Port Galveston
There is Sister Nelson on the top deck checking on the progress of the ferry

The Gulf of Mexico
It is amazing how quickly they can unload this outfit!
Lots of shipping traffic around the Port.
Looking out from Port Arthur
Pier 22

Jack n Gaye

Sunday, November 21, 2010

21 November 2010 Thanksgiving Week

21 November 2010

Happy Thanksgiving Week

We wish everyone a wonderful week. We have so many blessings. We are so grateful to be serving as missionaries. We are having many wonderful experiences and meeting many wonderful people. When we left I felt the words to the hymn in my heart, ‘Because I have been given much, I too must give.’ Indeed we have many blessings. Yes, there are challenges but we try to focus on the positive things that are happening, the things that we are able to help with, the many good things we are learning and the many wonderful people we meet and the new friendships made. Looking back the time has passed so quickly, the months seem to seem to have wings.

It has been a very busy week at the Center. Everyday has been packed full. We worked with many people, helped volunteers, kept up with job postings etc. There are two new hired people that started this week. Will Bosewetter is finishing up his last few days as the Employment Developer. He was hired as part-time temporary employee. He will be replaced with two other men. Jack is spending time with them helping to get them trained. A major part of this job is to allow job seekers an opportunity to meet and network with people in the career field so after 3 months their time up and someone else gets that chance. It’s a new program and I think it will be a good one. Will really got to be a good friend so we are sad to see him go. He is a recent convert and it was great to be in that situation and see his growth. He had opportunities to give spiritual thoughts, prayers and even blessings.

We were even busy on Saturday this week, in fact very busy. We finally looked up and it was 2 o’clock already. Donna T. made a sign on the computer and posted next to the door at the Store House that said, ‘Need a Job? The Employment Center is open.’ That did the trick, we had many people come and visit us before or after getting their food order. (Since we are still not allowed to have the door open between us or go over and visit with people.) It is amazing how many calls we field for the Bishop’s Storehouse, the Home Storage Cannery and Family Services for that matter – both in phone calls or people coming to the facility. Probably at least 5 to 10 a day.

I worked with a man this week who is in a wheelchair He even has limited use of his arms and hands but I was so impressed with him. He is able to be so positive and motivated about getting a job. He has a great resume and has had some prior experience in upper level positions. Due so some health issues he has not been able to work the last couple of years but has spent time doing some great volunteer work at some nonprofit organizations. I didn’t find out a lot about his circumstances because it was such a non issue with him. He focused on what he could do. He was really amazing. I asked Donna T. to come on board and help give advice on his resume and job approach; as usual she was able to add some ideas and insights. The only thing that really indicated he had a disability was when he asked if I would open the door for him as he left.

I suppose we all have some disabilities of some kind, oh if we could approach them like he does his and not let them cripple us or restrict our activity but go forth with courage and strength. We learn so much from so many people.

There is one man that has been coming in regularly for a couple of weeks and all of us have been helping him. He comes in and works on his resume, filling out applications, working on the computer etc. He is one that needs help in knowing what to do next, get up every morning, get cleaned up and work on your job search. He called in the other day and I answered the phone. He was so discouraged, I went over what things he had been doing, he had been doing things as we had recommended but he was not having any success in getting any contact with people or getting any interviews. Finally I felt like he just needed encouragement, so I told him he was doing all the right things and he just needed to keep doing them, keep trying, keep looking, applying etc. About an hour later he called back and he had heard from a couple of HR people where he had applied and was able to set up 2 interviews for next week. We were all so happy for him and cheered at his success in getting to that step.

Another lady returned whom we had helped last summer for quite some time, she had lost her apartment, moved to Florida to live with her sister for a time, then found work in Arkansas at a furniture store for a couple of months. She has been coming in for a couple of weeks now but a couple of days ago she was hired at a furniture store in this area. Once again we all cheered and rang the bell for her.

It’s often difficult to choose our words when we greet people at the Center. When you see someone return you don’t know quite what to say, you hate to say, ‘It’s good to see you again,’ because of course that means that their employment situation is not going well. When someone is leaving, do you say, ‘I hope to see you again soon,’ or is it better to say ‘I hope I never see you again.’ Always a puzzlement.

This week I was able to get the forms for the Keyboard Harmon Grant and begin the application process for two of the ladies attending the piano classes. The one older lady (you know the one about my age) doesn’t speak any English. Her son comes and interprets for us as needed. The application requires their signature and comments. They sign under the statement, “I commit to use any materials received through this grant to improve my own musical ability and to share those talent through serving and teaching others.” I had the applications sent in English so I would know what they said. When I asked the son to explain to Sister Hernandez what it was all about and help her fill it out said there was no way that she would agree to that, there was NO way that she would sign, that she is too afraid. Finally I convinced to just explain it to her and let her decide whether she wanted to sign or not – let it be her decision. It explained it to her and she got this huge smile on her face and clapped her hands together and giggled and was so excited about it. It was really a precious moment to see her joy at the prospects of getting her very own keyboard. Her son was just amazed, he said, “I can’t believe it, I can’t believe it!”

The other lady is already teaching and helping the younger students; she comes early and sets up for us and does so much to help move the program forward. I was able to catch the Branch President and obtain his signature. He was pleased that there are a couple of people who are making such good progress. He is very supportive of the program and is so pleased to have the instruction going on in the Branch. He hopes that they can get to where they can have people playing for their ward like the other Wards do. I now have to catch up with the Stake President and get his signature also.

It’s really quite interesting teaching people who don’t have keyboards to practice on. But we do what we can. A member in the Stake donated a smaller keyboard and we have sent that home with a family where there are a couple of children coming. Some have smaller keyboards at home but there are a few who don’t have any keyboards at all. However, they come and are progressing.

This next week the kids in Texas have the entire week off for Thanksgiving so we won’t have piano class this week.

Monday Family Home Evening at the Morells, Kay and her boys and Mark & Angie and their children came; also an investigator, several friends and the young Elders; the Bryners came including their son and his family. We played several of our recorder/violin/cello/harpsichord pieces and then Jack and I played several tunes on the mandolin & guitar. It was a fun evening.

One of the Morell family’s was not able to make it on Monday night so Friday evening we got together again. The Bryner’s didn’t come this evening so Charlie and I played recorder/harpsichord and then Jack and I played guitar & mandolin tunes. This audience was much younger so we adjusted to that. I took some of the other sizes of recorders and showed them and told about them, they were all pretty interested. All of these kids take piano lessons so they too played. It was fun to hear the children play, I haven’t heard some of those songs for more than a year now.

On our P-Day this week we went on a little trip up into Oklahoma. We had volunteers this week from that area so it was interesting to go see where they were from. They had given me a list of towns & cities near where they lived and we’ve been looking for companies that we could list their jobs. We went up to Ada and then made a loop back around. It is very rural but we really enjoyed it. It’s always nice to get out of the city for a few hours.

Last week when Joan and Delmar were here we were able to visit the Meadows Art Museum at the SMU campus. There were a couple of fellows who guided us through giving us insights into many of the paintings, which made it very interesting. Honestly there were only one or two that I was very impressed with. However, it was very interesting to go through the display of the George Bush Library. It will be on the SMU campus, the ground breaking was held just this past week, a few days after we were there.

Today – Sunday, we went out to the Weatherford 1st Ward Sacrament Mtg. I had made calls to the candidates in that ward this past week and did the follow up with a visit to the Ward. I don’t know if we did any good but we are making the effort, hopefully somewhere it will make a difference, at least we tried.

On our way home we stopped by and visited Sister Gloria Lyle, she is a service missionary who serves at the Center M-F. She had some surgery on her other foot and will be out a couple of weeks. She is a wonderful person and does so much work a the Center, we really miss her but we’re glad that she can get her feet in better shape and not be in so much pain. I am trying to do some of the work that she normally does while she is away, such as update the placement reports each day etc. She is working from her computer at home and has posted on nearly 700 jobs in the last 2 days. Jack and Will gave her a blessing before her surgery. Jack included in her blessing that her family would rally around her. We know of her situation and know that her family has not been to visit her in more than a year – she wasn’t too sure about that part of the blessing. She called yesterday however and said that she had been humbled, her son and his family came to visit her and asked her if there was anything she needed. She was so thrilled!

I think that about wraps it up for this week. We hope you all have a wonderful Thanksgiving week. Indeed we have many blessings, including family, friends, the gospel of Jesus Christ, our beautiful world and so many more. Thanks for being such a wonderful family.

We love and miss you,

Grandpa & Grandma, Mom & Dad, Jack & Gaye

Elder & Sister NelsonJack n Gaye

Nov 18th 2010 Oklahoma-Plano

A busy week here with my giant friends. They still stand a silent guard.The Chapel in Durant Oklahoma. This ward is part of the McKinney Stake
A stop on the Choctaw Indian Reservation
A stop by an Amish Store
A visit to the Morell's while Charlie recorded each Grand Child playing a piano piece
Sister Nelson giving a lesson on Recorders and their application in the Baroque period
I wonder if Mark or Stan would want to Farm this Oklahoma Red dirt?

Jack n Gaye

Sunday, November 14, 2010

November 14th 2010

14 November 2010

A walk to the park this week one sees lengthening shadows, active squirrels rushing with acorns in their jaws preparing for the winter months ahead, beautiful leaves of gold and deep red – a pretty time of year.
This week at the Employment Center has not particularly busy, steady but not frazzled. We have had discussions on how we might better serve the people in this area with employment needs. We attempt to make contact with candidates who have not been into the Center but it’s difficult to get a response, either through email or by phone.
At the same time we try to support and help the leaders on the local level, we don’t want people thinking you have to come to the Center for resources and bypass the local leaders.
The ldsjobs.org website is now a year old, a great site. I’m afraid all too frequently people don’t take advantage of the site and really use it like it could be used. We continually try to educate people on how to use it and what the benefits are of completing their profiles and direct their attention to the many great articles that give them ideas on how to approach their job search.
Monday was a very busy day, people coming and going all day. Finally we had to excuse Nathan M. and another volunteer who were posting jobs on the computer. We had to free up computers for the candidates who were in working on resumes, job searching, working on their profiles, etc.
I worked with another candidate who has a felony conviction this past week. A tough place to be for sure. Many times trying to help people focus on the positive things in their life can be a great challenge. Looking at the things that you CAN do rather than focusing on what’s wrong.
We had an exciting day Tuesday when one of our candidates came in and reported that the interview he was preparing his dossier for last week, resulted in a job offer. He was pretty excited – and of course we were pretty excited for him. He has been coming in regularly for a couple of months and all of us had helped him with one thing or another. He brought in doughnuts and treats and we all celebrated with him.
We also had a fellow in who may get evicted from his apartment this week, too many weeks without work. We help with all that we can. He comes in hungry so we get some food together for him when he’s there.
I had a visit with Donna T. a couple of days ago. It seems that those hardest hit by this economic situation have been the men in their 50’s and 60’s. We see many in this age category and some of them have been out of work for quite a long time. Companies are hiring younger people who they can hire for less money and often more qualified. Of course they don’t have the experience but if you’re figuring out a budget on paper the younger one comes out a head. It becomes their ‘job’ to convince employers that their experience is worth more to them than the inexperienced worker – a hard thing to do. Many of them are finding some contract work, hired by companies to do a couple of weeks or months or work on a project without hiring them full time. Definitely not a very stable income but of course better than nothing. Seeing this it seems to be increasing important for people to keep up on their skills at their work, being careful not to become outdated and always working to stay on top of your ‘game.’
Many of the younger job seekers who are graduating from college, are choosing to go on and get a higher degree in hopes that by the time they finish, the job market will have improved.
We heard of a new phenomenon a couple of days ago. Out in west Texas they had what they call ‘thunder snow.’ There is thunder and lightening but it snows rather than rains. I’ve never heard of such a thing before.
I forgot to mention last week that we went to a fireside about the Dead Sea Scrolls. It was very good and interesting. We learned that they have found many names used that are found in the Book of Mormon. Even though it was not found in part of the Dead Sea Scrolls, in other scrolls they have found the name Alma used. Today many people feel that Alma is a girls name but this confirms it to be a male name because it says ‘Alma the son of _______.’
Elder Nelson and I both commented on the prelude music and how much we were enjoying. When they introduced him they mentioned that he is the person that wrote the words and music for the Primary song, “I Hope They Call Me on a Mission.’
A few days ago I got a phone call from Hermana Brooksby, the missionary from Las Vegas who I met first in the temple, then the MTC and then lived in our apartment complex here in Dallas. She had some health problems and had to be released but she is now in Colorado with her sister and things are going well for her. It was fun to visit with her once again and get an update on how things are going for her. She’s a great young lady.
Tuesday evening Jack drove me out to SMU and I was able to play recorder with the Dallas Recorder Society. Friday evening we went with the Phelps out to the Artisan Theater to the play, ‘Annie’. Last month we went to ‘To Kill a Mockingbird,’ when Donna and Dennis were here. You fill out a card with your name on it and they have a drawing, the prize being 2 free tickets to the next play. I wasn’t going to bother with it because I never win anything like that anyway. So Jack took my card and filled it out for me. Guess what! Yep, they drew my ticket out – so we had free tickets this time.
Thursday morning we went to the temple and did some sealings. In the afternoon we met up with Joan and Delmar Leatham and Katey. They are here visiting Paul and Katey for a few days. It was so good to see them and we enjoyed visiting with them and spending the afternoon and evening with them. After Paul got off work we all met for dinner at the Blue Mesa. A yummy Mexican restaurant, the first time I’ve had sweet potato chips – they were actually very good.
Paul gave the lesson in the Gospel Essentials class today and did an excellent job. It was on Family History and temple work. He had the class share stories from their heritage. There were a couple of investigators there with the young Elders who shared a little of their history. One’s father had escaped Cuba’s Casto regime and had made it by boat to America so his family in future generations would have a better life. The other one’s mother had eaten scraps from an orphanage in Britain to survive and was able to save and come to America where they have been able to build a better life. Now they are having the opportunity to hear the gospel.
We just returned from Paul & Katey’s apartment. They fixed a Thanksgiving meal and invited us over. It was very delicious and once again great to spend some time visiting with friends from the Valley. That was our Thanksgiving meal for the year. We have three days where the Center is closed so we have decided to go to Houston for a couple of days and visit the sites there.
I’m feeling pretty good about the Sunbeck Spanish piano classes. We’ve had a couple of new people start coming and we are seeing some progress. I need to call SLC about the grant and have them send us some more books.
Saturday evening we had an evening concert at the Morell’s home. There were about 25 people that came to listen. Our evening of music was titled, ‘Music of the Hit Parade of 1740.’ There was Charlie Morell on the Harpsichord, Alaina Bryner on the Violin, Duane Bryner on Cello and I played the Alto Recorder. We played Sonatas by Sammartini, Telemann, Loillet, and Vivaldi. I played the first part on all of the pieces (I kept trying to get Alaina to trade with me, but she wouldn’t go for it). I think maybe it’s not as stressful to play for people that you don’t know at all or just casually know. It was an enjoyable evening and a wonderful experience to be able to play with these other musicians – not only because of their ability, but they are just good people. Carla is always such a gracious hostess, she doesn’t seem to stress but has everything so nice and always fixes a delicious dessert for everyone afterwards. As I visited with one lady afterwards she commented that this is a ‘blessing sent from heaven.’ I full heartedly agree with her.
We have appreciated the pictures and phone calls from family today as the Nelson’s have gathered in Cedar City for Grandpa’s 86th party. It sounds like it went well and everyone had a great time. We miss being to things like that and look forward to sharing those family times again next year.
At Church today in the Dallas 6th Ward as we visited with people we had two people share with us that they lost their jobs this last week. Both of them in the 50 year old range. One of them is the Ward Employment Specialist and has been very kind to us and has had us in their home for dinner. It just makes you want to cry when you visit with them. So I’m afraid we’re not done with our work here yet.
It’s exciting to hear about some of our friends and their calls to serve. We hope that Elder Bob Jones is on his was to recovery. Amazed at the new assignment for Nick and Bonnie Bowler to Iceland, that will be a challenge but who could take on something like that better than the Bowlers?
We are grateful for this opportunity to serve in the Lord’s kingdom. We are grateful to have such wonderful family and friends like you. As we meet more people and learn of their situations in life, we truly feel so blessed to have such a wonderful family. We love you and miss you but we are pressing forward in the work. We need and seek His guidance and inspiration in all we do. Till next week ~ our love,
Grandpa & Grandma, Dad & Mom, Jack & Gaye
Elder & Sister Nelson

Jack n Gaye

Saturday, November 13, 2010

Plano Consort Event

A cello highlight
A Saturday evening of music at the home of Charlie and Carla Morell.

A last minute visit to detail before the guests arrive. 23 invited guest listened to a wonderful event billed as Music from the Hit parade of 1749
Dr. Morell lecturing about the Baroque period of music.
One last story
Music from 1740
The guests
A great program on recreation of original instruments.

Jack n Gaye

Thursday, November 11, 2010

Dealey Plaza - SMU - El Greco's - Leathams

Started the day with a Visit to the Dallas Temple
Ended the Day with a wonder dinner with the Leatham Family.
A visit to the Campus of SMU and the Meadows Museum. Only the Delmar would think to check the nose for signs of life.
The Wave with the 1st Methodist church in the background. The University of Arizona was playing ball here. George W Bush is planning his Presidential Library here on this campus.
The lovely Katey strikes a pose overlooking the "Grassy Knoll" at the Dealey Plaza
The Texas Book Depository where Oswald was located the second window from the top on the right side of the building. Both the Leathams and the Nelsons could remember where they were on that November day.
Mr Leatham in a dire strait
Which way did they go Brother Goodnight?
A shot of a Sailor on Veterans Day, for my dad, who served in the Navy in 1943 then a cattle rancher for the next 60 years. I love you Dad!
They Leatham crew at the Convention Center and Pioneer Park. Now that was a
P-day memory!

Jack n Gaye

Sunday, November 7, 2010

November 7th 2010

7 November 2010

Can you believe it – this time last year we were leaving good ol’ Moapa Valley and making our way to the MTC!! Monday, November 9th 2009, is the day we entered it’s doors. It has been quite a year, never to be forgotten. We have learned so much and have had so many wonderful experiences. We have met many wonderful people and have made many new friends. We love the Texas pace and hospitality. I have been reading President Monson’s Biography, ‘To the Rescue.’ He mentions going to Dallas, TX in the 60’s and it being called the ‘City of Churches.’ There are definitely many, many churches of many denominations, resulting in a lot of religious people who put their faith and trust in God.
We are so excited for Chandler Whipple’s mission call to New Zealand!! WOW, that is exciting. (By the way it is one of the most expensive missions there is, there must be a high cost of living there. It was one place we knew that we wouldn’t get sent.) We are also excited to hear about Nick & Bonnie Bowler being called to Denmark. Such a great missionary force there will be.
Julie Poole was out of the Center this week. One of her children was involved in adopting a baby so she was able to take the week and help them and get to know a new grandson. We’re glad that she felt like she could be gone and spend the time she needed.
Monday we had a lady call in and ask if we helped people who were not members of our church, we answered that yes we help anyone who would like to come in or sign on the website. She asked, ‘Do you even help Catholics?’ ‘Yes, we help Catholics too.’ When she came in I was available so I was able to help her. A very pleasant lady. Her husband is also out of work and she is feeling the strain of unemployment. She is having difficulty sleeping at night and always under stress. She repeatedly mentioned how she felt so much peace at the Center. She had some questions whether the Center was actually the church, how we had the money to run such a facility – I was able to share with her about fast offerings and a few other things. She was very impressed with this. She really wanted to be able to work at the Center and wondered if we were hiring anyone. Then I was able to explain about missionary work and service. She was still willing to do it but unfortunately she needs a job that pays right now. She reminded me how fortunate I was to have a husband that had similar goals and ideals and that we were both willing to serve together at the same time. She said that would not be possible with her husband. It was a good reminder to remember some of my blessings. She doesn’t have Internet at home anymore and lives quite close by the Center. I assured her that she was welcome anytime to come in and use the facilities.
Tuesday we had a lot of rain so it was quite slow at the Center. I was able to spend some time calling candidates. I have been quite random in making calls to candidates and ward employment specialist in my assigned stakes. I’ve decided to try to be a little more focused, calling people within a particular ward (requires getting a special print out from Julie – one of the things we are frustrated with about the website because it won’t allow us to do this), talking with the ward specialist in that ward and seeing if there are any insights or special needs that we could help with. Then we could follow up with a visit to that ward on Sunday. The one ward I was able to do this in turned out to be a good experience. For example, the WES was able to tell me that one young lady was expecting a baby any day so she really wasn’t out job searching right now.
I am sure using the few words that I know in sign language and Spanish a lot. Nathan Mahana continues to come in on Monday and Tuesday afternoons for several hours. It is a big help for him to post jobs on the website. We also have volunteers work on this when they come in. We are supposed to have one everyday for 4 hours but that doesn’t usually happen. Then some of the ones who do come aren’t familiar enough on the computer to copy & paste jobs.
Some days the ldsjobs website doesn’t work so well, such was a day on Wednesday. It kept logging everyone off every few minutes, not allowing you to sign back on for a few minutes, over and over. Finally I just had Nathan go home for the day, it wasn’t worth the hassle.
Wednesday evening at Sunbeck Spanish Branch piano class we had announced that if there were any others who would like to begin taking lessons they could come that night. We had about 8 more people come, a few younger children, a couple of Young Women and an adult. We stagger them through from 6:00 to 7:30. We are getting more organized and I feel good about how it’s all going. (Mom, thanks for sending the ‘Crooked Man’ song.)
Wednesday the MacPhearson’s come in to cover while the Phelps have their P-day, however they were sick so it ended up being Elder Nelson, Donna T. and I. It always works out however and we were able to handle everything just fine.
Friday was our workshop day, we had 4 people signed up to come however none of them showed. So that day I went back to the apartment for a lunch break, it was nice to have a little time to relax.
I think I forgot to mention that last Sunday the Mark Morell family invited us to dinner at their home. Charlie and Carla and Kay and her kids were also invited – two weeks ago Sunday was Charlie’s birthday, they had a dinner but so many people were invited and there was not much seating so we were not invited – we were totally fine with that! We really don’t expect to be invited to every get together they have. However, his kids were quite upset and couldn’t believe that we were not invited to the birthday dinner, so Mark invited to his house the following Sunday dinner to make up for it. It is so great, such a blessing to have a whole family let us be a part of their lives like that.
This led to being invited to the Friday night football game. High school football in Texas is quite a big event! Several high schools share a stadium, which rivals any college football stadium. It was the last game of the season and one of the Morell boys plays on the defensive team. We bundled up (this week light jackets in the morning and evening hours have turned to coats and scarves) and made our way to the Plano vs. Plano West game. It was actually very fun to be away from an office environment and away from a computer for a few hours and be out in the brisk open air. They have pre-game show and a half-time show by the marching, band, flag twirlers, drill team that would be something like we try to put together once a year for Home Coming. And the right team won. Football is always more fun when you know some one on the team to cheer for. We enjoyed the evening, even if we did leave at the end of the 3rd quarter.
The Bryner’s work at the temple and this week the temple was closed – as some of you know, that’s your time to be able to get out of town, so we didn’t get together and play. We will this week however for Saturday evening we are doing a little evening concert at the Morell home.
Yesterday I was able to go to the orchestra rehearsal for the Messiah. It is a seven piece string orchestra, plus harpsichord and an alto recorder. It was a lot of fun, I kept up pretty good for being my first time of playing it.
Thursday for our P-day we went out to East Texas to Nacogdoches. (Cheers to you if you can figure out how to say that one.) Out in East Texas they really have the Texas drawl, lots of y’all’s and all y’alls. We stopped at a KFC to eat and they asked Jack if he wanted ‘something from this side of the menu or something down yonder.’ He got some good elbowing from me because he kept laughing, but they weren’t trying to be funny. There are a lot of woods and pine trees out in East Texas so it was a beautiful drive. In fact, it’s actually called ‘the piney woods’ area. Dallas area is called, ‘Prairies and Lakes.’
On our way to church this morning we were listening to the radio – the classical station always has preachers on Sunday morning – they told a joke that we enjoyed. You may not get it but I think we will enjoy it in the years ahead.
A man out in East Texas wanted to join a church but the preacher told him he had to answer some questions first. He asked him, ‘where was Jesus born?’ The answered, ‘In Longview.’ The preacher told him he was sorry but that wasn’t the correct answer so he wouldn’t be able to join. So he went to a different church. Once again he was told he had to answer some questions. Again he was asked where Jesus was born. This time the man answered, ‘In Tyler.’ Again he was wrong and wasn’t able to join that church. A third time he went to a different church and asked if he could join. He was asked the same question, ‘where was Jesus born.’ This time the man answered, ‘Palestine.’ (The Palastine, TX is pronounced palace-teen.) This time the preacher said, ‘Correct, you may join the church.’ The man answered, ‘Finally I got it right, I knew it was someplace in East Texas.’ I think you have to be in Texas for that to be funny.
As we continue forward here serving I am ever impressed at how important ‘faith and hope’ are. We must look forward to a brighter day when life’s challenges come upon us. We must act in faith, we must act in hope that the future will be brighter. We must press forward with confidence and hope in making those things happen. At times its very difficult to move forward in this way but we can see that if we give up things will not get better.
Sometimes we visit with people who are losing hope, who become discouraged but we try to instill in them to do the work that they need to do. We’ve had one person in this week who just feels like it’s all too much work, that it’s too hard to make a resume, let alone multiple ones for different jobs, too hard to put in the hours every day to keep searching and getting yourself ready. I really admire Donna T., she can talk with people and be so frank but also so loving and kind, all in the breath. She can tell them, this is what you need to do and get them to commit to doing it. To get them to come in prepared with information, to get cleaned up, shave and dress decent…….. She’s amazing. Then the next minute she is working with an unemployed Stake Pres-y member to help prepare them for an interview where he will be working with a company where he will be handling the accounts that are worth $100 million or more, if he gets the job.
Elder Nelson is doing so good. He has been busy this week putting on many companies and jobs. He and Will Boesewetter do good work together. He is also helping candidates as they walk through the door. He is so good with people, he makes them feel at ease and he knows so much about so many things that he can talk the language of almost any profession. And he is at ease with people from all walks of life, from those seeking the most entry level jobs to those seeking high corporate careers. (His knowledge of trivia is serving him well here.)
We are enjoying our time of service and this time of strengthening our relationship. We are grateful to be serving where we are, doing what we are doing. The Lord truly knows each of us personally. There is only one thing missing and that is YOU.
We pray for you daily and appreciate your prayers for us. We feel of their sustaining influence. Our love,
Mom & Dad, Grandpa & Grandma, Jack & Gaye
Elder & Sister Nelson

Jack n Gaye

Thursday, November 4, 2010

Nacogdoches - Stephen F. Austin State University


Sister Nelson working the Career Fair that the BYU Management Society hosts every year. It was a large event, lots of hard work, but well attended with lots of networking opportunities.
We had a great time working the Career Fair and met lots of wonderful people.
For our Thursday P-day we decided to head out to East Texas.
Our First stop in East Texas was the Oil town of Kilgore.

Kilgore Tx is where Oil was first discovered in Texas. They have left the old oil derrick as part of the East Texas Oil Museum.
Then on to Nacogdoches and Stephen F Austin University

The city has been under more flags than the state of Texas, claiming nine flags. In addition to the Six Flags of Texas, it also flew under these flags: The Magee-Gutierrez Republic, The Long Republic, and The Fredonia Republic. People from the United States began to settle in Nacogdoches in 1820 and Texas' first newspaper was published there.

The Student Center

On February 1, 2003, the Space Shuttle Columbia broke up during re-entry, depositing debris across Texas. Much of the debris landed in Nacogdoches and much of the media coverage of the disaster focused on Nacogdoches.


Part of the walking tour we saw the jugs for the cane syrup
We took a walking tour of the Historical downtown. An early house with a spinning wheel.A garden that included sugar cane. They grow allot of sugar cane in East Texas. They celebrate with the Syrup Festival each year at this time.
The hay hooks
The lady that took us on the tour was a history major working on a Master at SFA University. Thomas Rusk was one of the most prominent early Nacogdoches Anglo settlers. A veteran of the Texas Revolution, hero of San Jacinto, he signed the Texas Declaration of Independence and was secretary of war during the Republic of Texas
Nacogdoches is a sister city of Natchitoches, Louisiana. What an interesting visit~
Jack n Gaye