Sunday, November 21, 2010

21 November 2010 Thanksgiving Week

21 November 2010

Happy Thanksgiving Week

We wish everyone a wonderful week. We have so many blessings. We are so grateful to be serving as missionaries. We are having many wonderful experiences and meeting many wonderful people. When we left I felt the words to the hymn in my heart, ‘Because I have been given much, I too must give.’ Indeed we have many blessings. Yes, there are challenges but we try to focus on the positive things that are happening, the things that we are able to help with, the many good things we are learning and the many wonderful people we meet and the new friendships made. Looking back the time has passed so quickly, the months seem to seem to have wings.

It has been a very busy week at the Center. Everyday has been packed full. We worked with many people, helped volunteers, kept up with job postings etc. There are two new hired people that started this week. Will Bosewetter is finishing up his last few days as the Employment Developer. He was hired as part-time temporary employee. He will be replaced with two other men. Jack is spending time with them helping to get them trained. A major part of this job is to allow job seekers an opportunity to meet and network with people in the career field so after 3 months their time up and someone else gets that chance. It’s a new program and I think it will be a good one. Will really got to be a good friend so we are sad to see him go. He is a recent convert and it was great to be in that situation and see his growth. He had opportunities to give spiritual thoughts, prayers and even blessings.

We were even busy on Saturday this week, in fact very busy. We finally looked up and it was 2 o’clock already. Donna T. made a sign on the computer and posted next to the door at the Store House that said, ‘Need a Job? The Employment Center is open.’ That did the trick, we had many people come and visit us before or after getting their food order. (Since we are still not allowed to have the door open between us or go over and visit with people.) It is amazing how many calls we field for the Bishop’s Storehouse, the Home Storage Cannery and Family Services for that matter – both in phone calls or people coming to the facility. Probably at least 5 to 10 a day.

I worked with a man this week who is in a wheelchair He even has limited use of his arms and hands but I was so impressed with him. He is able to be so positive and motivated about getting a job. He has a great resume and has had some prior experience in upper level positions. Due so some health issues he has not been able to work the last couple of years but has spent time doing some great volunteer work at some nonprofit organizations. I didn’t find out a lot about his circumstances because it was such a non issue with him. He focused on what he could do. He was really amazing. I asked Donna T. to come on board and help give advice on his resume and job approach; as usual she was able to add some ideas and insights. The only thing that really indicated he had a disability was when he asked if I would open the door for him as he left.

I suppose we all have some disabilities of some kind, oh if we could approach them like he does his and not let them cripple us or restrict our activity but go forth with courage and strength. We learn so much from so many people.

There is one man that has been coming in regularly for a couple of weeks and all of us have been helping him. He comes in and works on his resume, filling out applications, working on the computer etc. He is one that needs help in knowing what to do next, get up every morning, get cleaned up and work on your job search. He called in the other day and I answered the phone. He was so discouraged, I went over what things he had been doing, he had been doing things as we had recommended but he was not having any success in getting any contact with people or getting any interviews. Finally I felt like he just needed encouragement, so I told him he was doing all the right things and he just needed to keep doing them, keep trying, keep looking, applying etc. About an hour later he called back and he had heard from a couple of HR people where he had applied and was able to set up 2 interviews for next week. We were all so happy for him and cheered at his success in getting to that step.

Another lady returned whom we had helped last summer for quite some time, she had lost her apartment, moved to Florida to live with her sister for a time, then found work in Arkansas at a furniture store for a couple of months. She has been coming in for a couple of weeks now but a couple of days ago she was hired at a furniture store in this area. Once again we all cheered and rang the bell for her.

It’s often difficult to choose our words when we greet people at the Center. When you see someone return you don’t know quite what to say, you hate to say, ‘It’s good to see you again,’ because of course that means that their employment situation is not going well. When someone is leaving, do you say, ‘I hope to see you again soon,’ or is it better to say ‘I hope I never see you again.’ Always a puzzlement.

This week I was able to get the forms for the Keyboard Harmon Grant and begin the application process for two of the ladies attending the piano classes. The one older lady (you know the one about my age) doesn’t speak any English. Her son comes and interprets for us as needed. The application requires their signature and comments. They sign under the statement, “I commit to use any materials received through this grant to improve my own musical ability and to share those talent through serving and teaching others.” I had the applications sent in English so I would know what they said. When I asked the son to explain to Sister Hernandez what it was all about and help her fill it out said there was no way that she would agree to that, there was NO way that she would sign, that she is too afraid. Finally I convinced to just explain it to her and let her decide whether she wanted to sign or not – let it be her decision. It explained it to her and she got this huge smile on her face and clapped her hands together and giggled and was so excited about it. It was really a precious moment to see her joy at the prospects of getting her very own keyboard. Her son was just amazed, he said, “I can’t believe it, I can’t believe it!”

The other lady is already teaching and helping the younger students; she comes early and sets up for us and does so much to help move the program forward. I was able to catch the Branch President and obtain his signature. He was pleased that there are a couple of people who are making such good progress. He is very supportive of the program and is so pleased to have the instruction going on in the Branch. He hopes that they can get to where they can have people playing for their ward like the other Wards do. I now have to catch up with the Stake President and get his signature also.

It’s really quite interesting teaching people who don’t have keyboards to practice on. But we do what we can. A member in the Stake donated a smaller keyboard and we have sent that home with a family where there are a couple of children coming. Some have smaller keyboards at home but there are a few who don’t have any keyboards at all. However, they come and are progressing.

This next week the kids in Texas have the entire week off for Thanksgiving so we won’t have piano class this week.

Monday Family Home Evening at the Morells, Kay and her boys and Mark & Angie and their children came; also an investigator, several friends and the young Elders; the Bryners came including their son and his family. We played several of our recorder/violin/cello/harpsichord pieces and then Jack and I played several tunes on the mandolin & guitar. It was a fun evening.

One of the Morell family’s was not able to make it on Monday night so Friday evening we got together again. The Bryner’s didn’t come this evening so Charlie and I played recorder/harpsichord and then Jack and I played guitar & mandolin tunes. This audience was much younger so we adjusted to that. I took some of the other sizes of recorders and showed them and told about them, they were all pretty interested. All of these kids take piano lessons so they too played. It was fun to hear the children play, I haven’t heard some of those songs for more than a year now.

On our P-Day this week we went on a little trip up into Oklahoma. We had volunteers this week from that area so it was interesting to go see where they were from. They had given me a list of towns & cities near where they lived and we’ve been looking for companies that we could list their jobs. We went up to Ada and then made a loop back around. It is very rural but we really enjoyed it. It’s always nice to get out of the city for a few hours.

Last week when Joan and Delmar were here we were able to visit the Meadows Art Museum at the SMU campus. There were a couple of fellows who guided us through giving us insights into many of the paintings, which made it very interesting. Honestly there were only one or two that I was very impressed with. However, it was very interesting to go through the display of the George Bush Library. It will be on the SMU campus, the ground breaking was held just this past week, a few days after we were there.

Today – Sunday, we went out to the Weatherford 1st Ward Sacrament Mtg. I had made calls to the candidates in that ward this past week and did the follow up with a visit to the Ward. I don’t know if we did any good but we are making the effort, hopefully somewhere it will make a difference, at least we tried.

On our way home we stopped by and visited Sister Gloria Lyle, she is a service missionary who serves at the Center M-F. She had some surgery on her other foot and will be out a couple of weeks. She is a wonderful person and does so much work a the Center, we really miss her but we’re glad that she can get her feet in better shape and not be in so much pain. I am trying to do some of the work that she normally does while she is away, such as update the placement reports each day etc. She is working from her computer at home and has posted on nearly 700 jobs in the last 2 days. Jack and Will gave her a blessing before her surgery. Jack included in her blessing that her family would rally around her. We know of her situation and know that her family has not been to visit her in more than a year – she wasn’t too sure about that part of the blessing. She called yesterday however and said that she had been humbled, her son and his family came to visit her and asked her if there was anything she needed. She was so thrilled!

I think that about wraps it up for this week. We hope you all have a wonderful Thanksgiving week. Indeed we have many blessings, including family, friends, the gospel of Jesus Christ, our beautiful world and so many more. Thanks for being such a wonderful family.

We love and miss you,

Grandpa & Grandma, Mom & Dad, Jack & Gaye

Elder & Sister NelsonJack n Gaye

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